She commented about how we all look the same and no one would really be able to tell, but once someone found out they might dig for something that "stood" out.
The catty, high schoolesque, mean girl in me snorted something along the lines of "oh, the girls would be easy to pick out, with their emo tattoos, tiny frame and 90-pound, 12-year-old girl, waif look." It's not that I really meant it, considering first, 99 percent of the vegan population doesn't, in fact, look "vegan," and most of the girls rocking the haven't eaten in years look are on some crazy fad diet and aren't following a "lifestyle."
I'm the chubby vegan.
I was unable to order my winter coat from any sort of vegan clothing store because if I wanted one which could cover my chest AND button up without popping, I'd have to order a very ugly, very not feminine male winter coat. A blah-black, boring, made for a man with no shape, pea coat.
Where's the rule book that says a vegan can't be curvy (ie: chubby)?
It almost seems like an oxymoron, right? Someone who consumes absolutely no meat or dairy (essentially no cholesterol) being a little big boned? Well, I may have made the choice to lead a compassionate lifestyle, but that doesn't mean I swore to give up junk food. And trust me, if you're willing to pay, there is a plethora of vegan junk food.
Trust me, there are plenty of healthy ways to do vegan, and it's one of the biggest perks to the diet aside from the moral standpoint. But to be completely, chubby-girl honest, no where in the definition of veganism does it say it's about health. Do we all need to be a little more conscious of what we're putting into our bodies and the havoc most of it is reeking? Sure. Does going vegan mean I'm suddenly not allowed to enjoy an Oreo? The last time I checked, no. (And yes, America's favorite cookie is vegan, there I said it. I let the cat out of the bag).
Being vegan is about reducing suffering. It's living a life which doesn't require the killing or impairing of another sentient being. It's about being put on this Earth not to treat animals with violence and ignorance, but with respect and compassion. Being vegan is about recognizing the right that every living being should have - to simply live (without being turned into your hamburger, jello, purse or trophy).
So what if I'm not your typical, itty-bitty, animal rights lovin, hippie dippy vegan. I'm a cupcake, nacho, macaroni and "cheese" soup eating, beer drinking, chubby vegan and I'm proud of it. I'm happy that I'm not the "waldo" of the vegan world, that you couldn't pick me out of a crowd.
Maybe Pearyn will be the "stereotypical" vegan, maybe she won't. Maybe she'll be a corporate, powerhouse vegan with a kickass "pleather" briefcase and a network of underlings. Or maybe she'll be a meat-eating momma. I don't know what my little girl will grow into. I just hope she figures it out for herself, instead of letting everyone else do it for her.
This post was reviewed and edited July 2014